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Sunday, June 15, 2008

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The day I became a father for the second time! Happy Father's Day!

Scott Robert family photos 

Our Journey to receive Phoebe into our Family

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Gloria Hotel, Nanchang, China


 
2006 China Journey July 25 - Aug 10
This is our daughter's story and our journey to receive her into our family.
Phoebe's Daily Journal
Introduction Our Family is about to Change! **click here**

Click on "Day XX" to view my journal entry, and photos of that day.
 
IMG_0427webBeijing
Day 01  We Made it to Beijing!
Day 02  The Forbidden City, Chinese Acrobats
Day 03  Hutong Tour
Day 04  The Great Wall- Mutianyu, Top Restaurant in China
Day 05  Part 1 Temple of Heaven
Day 05  Part 2 New photos of Phoebe
 
IMG_1756webNanchang 
Day 06  Phoebe's Family Day!!!!! view video **click here** 
Day 07  China makes it official, Phoebe is ours!
Day 08  Finding the real China, more family photos
Day 09  Phoebe Grieves, Nanchang Village
Day 10  Mission accomplished in Nanchang
 
 
IMG_2476webGuangzhou
Day 11  Travel Day, Guangzhou
Day 12  Eat water beetles? Shopping in Guanzhou
Day 13  Phoebe's Medical Exam
Day 14-15 Last Day in China
 
 
 
IMG_2674webLos Angeles
Day 16-17We are Home!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
additional China Fine Art Photos
additional China Fine Art Photos
 
Selected Photos to be nationally published in a future issue of
 

View ALL our China 2006 album and see all our photos **click here**

 
238958042002 Chloe's Amazing Journey
If you would like to see photos and a slideshow and photos of our 2002 journey to China to receive Chloe **click here**
 
 
 
 
 

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Notes from a recent article sent to me  **click here**

The number of American families adopting children from China is rocketing, according to figures from the US department of state. In 2005, immigration authorities issued 7,906 visas to Chinese orphans beginning new lives with families in the US, up from 4,681 in 2001. Most are girls, unwanted in a society in which men are traditionally the breadwinners. More than 30 million babies are born in China each year and hundreds of thousands are made available for adoption. The cost varies, but most people adopting spend up to $25,000 (�13,000) plus travel expenses.

Comments: "hundreds of thousands are made available for adoption." This is false, China limits the number of legal adoptions out of the country because of the intense paperwork and screening process required for each adoption, they can not keep up with the high number of families that want to adopt from China. Hundreds of thousands of babies may be abandoned but only a selected few are actually placed into the adoption process.

Most abandoned babies are from low income rural areas, because of the one child rule, a son is the only source of retirement plan a rural family has since daughters leave the family when married. However, in the city areas, the Chinese have a different attitude and have no particular preference towards having a boy or a girl.  I was under the impression that almost all girls are abandoned in China but after talking to many of the local city dwellers in China I found out this not to be true, just an unfortunate practice done in the poor rural areas of the country.

More and more families in China are adopting now that the government has made this open to them which is quite wonderful. Most Chinese families will sacrifice a year or more of their annual average household salary to pay for an adoption. 

by Scott Robert Lim
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I was in China too this summer, but obviously you got a lot more out of it than I did! Congrats!
Posted 8/26/2006 11:08 PM by LOLingCat - recommend - reply

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very nice set up
Posted 8/26/2006 11:49 PM by Brandon_hicks1 - recommend - reply

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wow.. what a journey.  welcome back home.

Posted 8/27/2006 12:18 AM by sayJames Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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These are so amazing, congrats on getting them published... having your work recognised is such a great feeling!  I love the video after Chloe's story... Disneyland, made me a bit home sick but I laughed out loud which is always a good thing first thing in the morning! 
Posted 8/27/2006 12:39 AM by LadySadie - recommend - reply

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Blessed, Blessed, Blessed you all are!

I have loved ALL of your images from China from the start, they will be great memories for your entire family and your childrens, children in the future! Thanks for sharing with us all Scott, your wife must be on cloud nine by now.

Randy

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Thank you Scott
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amazing journey I must say through your photos. glad your home safe!
Posted 8/27/2006 1:25 PM by xcitement - recommend - reply

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Scott that's great!  I'll be watching for your photos in Rangefinder!  how did that come about?? Very cool!
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Your daughters are so lucky to have you!  They will have such beautiful memories to look back on by looking at your beautiful pictures.  I hope Phoebe is settling in to her new home well. -Jen
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I feel like I've been swamped with so many different things that I've missed a lot of your recent posts. Great work, as always! I hope all is well in your full house.
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ever thought about doing a podcast. Maybe even video
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Brandon_hicks1, yes, if I had more time! thanks for the suggestion.
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!!!  lots of reading for me today!  i'll have to show my twin your site!  she is getting married in '07, but on a budget.  i have no idea what this budget is, but i hope she can work you into it!  the thing is that new orleans has no photographers here now and the ones that WERE here before the Hurricane were HORRIBLE (i have my sister's wedding pictures to PROVE it!).  phoebe and chloe are so precious!  chloe still has those pinchable cheeks!  and actually, i kinda looked like phoebe as a kid.  i had the same hair, build, lips, nose, skin tone... i just think i had different eyes! 
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cool...story time! hahaha =)
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hey scott - yep, i sat next to you at dave and kat's wedding. my brother is actually the one that got engaged. i'll pass your name on to him when they start looking for a photographer. congratulations on the new child!
Posted 8/27/2006 11:50 PM by wadech - recommend - reply

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I smile every time I see her, because she's such a cute little girl.

Posted 8/28/2006 6:51 AM by Phuong_Phan - recommend - reply

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hahahha. ryc: anything is possible with photoshop no? hello? scott? are you still there? haha.
Posted 8/28/2006 8:31 AM by tommyandstaci - recommend - reply

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i loved reading every moment of your journey :)

Posted 8/28/2006 10:53 AM by kanipark Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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Just took the time to watch the slide show of your journey to find Chloe (God picked her out just for you!)
Having just followed your story Phoebe it was easy to interpert the photos of Chloe... tears came to my eyes.

Then I got caught up in your disneyland video and it made me LOL

You have been blessed!

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I caught up with a few entries I missed in China, brings back memories when I was there. Good, good times and as always lovely photos. ryc: Well I'll be gong to Wimbledon next year so if you're in the area your always welcome, heh :)

Posted 8/28/2006 1:53 PM by SubashKuttan - recommend - reply

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/china/story/0,,1855330,00.html
Posted 8/28/2006 2:19 PM by blueeolive - recommend - reply

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she's beautiful. I'm really happy for you. Happiness is the key to unlock that stress you've been withholding.
Posted 8/28/2006 7:39 PM by splash_of_sunshine - recommend - reply

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You have some of the most amazing photos, and your videos of your family and Chloe were so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes!!  Congrats!! : )
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I can't wait to meet her in-person Scott.  What an incredible journey...again : )

Blessings to the Lim Family!!

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beautiful scott! thanks for sharing and happy fathers day to you! =)
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